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Ni vet det h\u00e4r med ens inre l\u00e5ga, det den flammar f\u00f6r \u00e4r ofta r\u00e4tt v\u00e4g att g\u00e5. Jag har nog alltid varit passionsstyrd och gjort det jag velat, det som k\u00e4nns r\u00e4tt f\u00f6r oss just f\u00f6r stunden. N\u00e4r jag var 21 \u00e5r blev jag gravid med Alma. Filip hade uttryckt att han ville bli en ung pappa redan n\u00e4r vi tr\u00e4ffades och jag hade samma dr\u00f6m om barn. D\u00e4rf\u00f6r tog det inte l\u00e5ng tid innan det blev verklighet. Vi b\u00e5da pluggade och k\u00e4nde att det h\u00e4r var helt r\u00e4tt f\u00f6r oss, medan samh\u00e4llet kanske inte riktigt kunde h\u00e5lla med. Jag minns hur mina klasskamrater tyckte att jag inte hade hunnit leva \u00e4n, hur de f\u00f6rskr\u00e4ckt f\u00f6rs\u00f6kte \u00f6vertala mig om att jag inte var redo att viga mitt barn \u00e5t en annan m\u00e4nniska. Samtidigt hade jag en klasskamrat som inte ville ha barn, n\u00e5gonsin. D\u00e5 var hon 30 \u00e5r och jag minns hur samma klasskamrater uttryckte sin f\u00f6rskr\u00e4ckelse \u00f6ver hur hon kunde v\u00e4lja bort n\u00e5gonting s\u00e5 fantastiskt som barn. Minns hur v\u00e5ra blickar m\u00f6ttes och hur vi f\u00f6rstod varandra fullt ut. Det handlar inte om vad samh\u00e4llets normer vill att vi ska v\u00e4lja. Vi var b\u00e5da fria att v\u00e4lja v\u00e5r v\u00e4g genom livet och kunde d\u00e4rf\u00f6r respektera den andra lika fullt.<\/p>\n

\"\"<\/a>\"\"<\/a> Jag och Filip har alltid dr\u00f6mt tillsammans, haft stora ambitioner f\u00f6r oss och v\u00e5rt liv. M\u00e5nga g\u00e5nger \u00e4r det bara dr\u00f6mmar, som f\u00f6rblir just det men det finns en tjusning i det ocks\u00e5. Dr\u00f6mmar \u00e4r fria och obegr\u00e4nsade, i dr\u00f6mmen kan vi ta ut sv\u00e4ngarna och t\u00e4nka st\u00f6rre \u00e4n vad som ligger oss n\u00e4rmast till hands. Vissa g\u00e5nger riktas ambitionen \u00e5t annat h\u00e5ll, men n\u00e5gonting vi alltid velat g\u00f6ra \u00e4r att bygga upp n\u00e5gonting som vi b\u00e5da brinner f\u00f6r gemensamt och p\u00e5 s\u00e5 s\u00e4tt skapa mer tid f\u00f6r varandra. Huset har varit ett gemensamt projekt i flera \u00e5r nu men ju l\u00e4ngre vi h\u00e5llit p\u00e5 inomhus desto st\u00f6rre har l\u00e4ngtan blivit att spendera mer tid ute i tr\u00e4dg\u00e5rden.<\/p>\n

F\u00f6r oss \u00e4r tr\u00e4dg\u00e5rden lika mycket hemma som vardagsrum och k\u00f6k. I tr\u00e4dg\u00e5rden finner vi ro, familjetiden \u00e4r sj\u00e4lvklar och vi f\u00f6rs\u00f6ker skapa en s\u00e5 trivsam och l\u00e4ttsk\u00f6tt tr\u00e4dg\u00e5rd som m\u00f6jligt. Vi vill att tr\u00e4dg\u00e5rden ska spegla oss som lever d\u00e4r.<\/p>\n

Just nu h\u00e5ller jag p\u00e5 att utbilda mig till certifierad Permakulturdesigner. Efter det ska vi bygga vidare p\u00e5 en dr\u00f6m vi haft i flera \u00e5r, det \u00e4r lite hemligt \u00e4n s\u00e5 l\u00e4nge men till h\u00f6sten drar vi ig\u00e5ng! Jag ser s\u00e5 mycket framemot det men f\u00f6r nu ikv\u00e4ll ska jag \u00e5tminstone g\u00e5 ut och titta till alla fr\u00f6s\u00e5dder som st\u00e5r i v\u00e4xthuset och tr\u00e4ngs.\"\"<\/a>\"\"<\/a> F\u00f6rresten, innan jag g\u00e5r ut vill jag bara dela med mig av min allra k\u00e4raste hemlighet! Vi v\u00e4ntar barn nummer fyra, jag gr\u00e4t stora krokodilt\u00e5rar av lycka n\u00e4r jag s\u00e5g plusset. En\u00a0onge till som jag ska f\u00e5 b\u00e4ra, pussa godnatt och h\u00e5lla n\u00e4ra genom livet. Det mest v\u00e4rdefulla som finns, f\u00f6r mig. Medan andra kanske kan tycka det \u00e4r en unge f\u00f6r mycket, eller kommer med kommentarer som om vi r\u00e5kat trilla dit igen. Allas upplevelser \u00e4r olika, allas dr\u00f6mmar skiljer sig \u00e5t och f\u00f6r oss \u00e4r en stor bullrig familj precis vad vi \u00f6nskar och vill l\u00e4gga tiden p\u00e5, livet ut.<\/p>\n

Ha en fin dag k\u00e4ra ni och kom ih\u00e5g att f\u00f6lja din inre gl\u00f6d!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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